We report event-driven molecular dynamics simulations of the irreversible gelation of hard ellipsoids of revolution containing several associating groups, characterizing how the cluster size distribution evolves as a function of the extent of reaction, both below and above the gel point. We find that over a very large interval of values of the extent of reaction, parameter-free mean-field predictions are extremely accurate, providing evidence that in this model the Ginzburg zone near the gel point, where non-mean field effects are important, is very limited. We also find that the Flory’s hypothesis for the post-gelation regime properly describes the connectivity of the clusters even if the long-time limit of the extent of reaction does not reach the fully reacted state. This study shows that irreversibly aggregating asymmetric hard-core patchy particles may provide a close realization of the mean-field model, for which available theoretical predictions may help control the structure and the connectivity of the gel state. Besides chemical gels, the model is relevant to network-forming soft materials like systems with bioselective interactions, functionalized molecules and patchy colloids. © The Royal Society of Chemistry.